![]() ![]() Gestalt is German for "pattern", "shape", or "configuration". But expanding your mind by thinking of the big, maybe even impossible life goals can help you get more clarity of the deeper wishes that you may have buried. Wanting to have some fancy job doesn't matter if the job isn't a good fit for your needs, values, and interests. Wanting a million dollars makes no difference if you don't know the meaningful things you'd spend it on. When asking yourself this question, keep the previous discussion points in mind. And now I have a 2-year plan that'll help me get there. It wasn't until I realized that if it was that important to me, I'd figure out some way to get it. I hadn't allowed myself to know what I really wanted because I didn't think I could have it. Last year, I realized what I really wanted was to move back to my home town to be near family and friends (to meet my need for relatedness), but I couldn't really afford to live there. Some of us have a hard time knowing what we want because we don't want to think about things that we can't have.
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